What do you do when you love someone who doesn’t love you back? Or maybe she does love you in her way but not the way you need to be loved. Do you just hang in there and hope that things will get better? Do you try to change yourself into who you think it is she wants? Do you try to move on even though the thought of it scares you to death?
Please post ur comments… Wud be more than eager to read…
Well I wud suggest each and every person who goes thru such situations, COME OUT DUDE.. U GONNA GET NOTHING OUTTA IT..
“What do you do when you love someone who doesn’t love you back?”
My answer is accept that fact or move on with your life.
Wow, scary timing. My guy just dumped me Friday night. He says he doesn’t love me the way I love him. I knew this but was willing to overlook it because I loved him. I’ve never loved before. I’ve been loved and I’ve been really fond, but I’ve never truly loved. It feels better to love than it does to be loved. I’m so lost right now. I know I’ll be ok, but I’ve been through a couple box of tissues.
Please let me know what you figure out….
laila, I have no words of wisdom to offer except maybe that if it didn’t work out with this guy hopefully there’s someone even better waiting for you. Getting over a break up is never easy. Even more so when you are the one on the recieving end. So cry and be sad and have all your friends tell you that it was his loss and some day he’ll want you back and when you stop crying dust yourself off and get back out there.
The Girl in my case had already made it crystal clear right from the beginning that nothing cud happen, so i cant blame her for anything. I just wish I could be stronger.
God bless
Dude come outta it
u wont get anything but dejection..n..agony.. or may be thats what u want outta this..
or may be someday (as impossible as it seems) wisdom strikes u and u can start loving people who truly love u back
hope u can read between the lines..
I think the best thing to do is make the best of what’s around. When you’ve done all you can do and she still doesn’t want to move past friendship, then it’s high time to move on. You just have to accept that it’s just another one of life’s lessons. I’m sorry it’s tough but that’s the way some things are. Good luck!
Dear Vicky
I have been associated with you since so many years. As far as I know you, You do whatever you feel like, so it doesn’t make any difference to you what people say or advise. Only thing I can say is Reserve your Passion unlimited for someone else who loves you back.
Love is not only giving, love is recieving as well.
Love
Summi
Dear Shez…
have known u long enough to say that whoever u get associated with u in the future will be one helluva lucky girl….the pain and anguish u have been through is reflected in ur writing very clearly but always look at the silver lining in teh cloud! May Allah bless you with the most potent person u have always wanted and life is all about giving…so just feel that u have done enough and move on!
Loads of warm wishes!
Komi
hi sehzad,
its ur call bro, we’ll be there to support. ITS NEVER TOO LATE.
HAHAHA
Thanks bro.. i was wondering who is this until i saw ur id…
i know buddy ur always there with me
Thanks a ton
hey bro,
Life is all about moving on..It will provide you with impregnable challenges that will leave you disheartened..bt knowin u , i cn safely say that u have will of iron and no matter how rough a deal life gives u , u will come out trumps. Nothin in this life , is like a death sentence that can not be revoked.
Lucky will be the gal who gets to call herself “Foreva yours” …Dnt worry your time is round the corner…
Peace..!!!!
heyy,
i think its not the final destination that you look at but the journey that you enjoy when you are with someone so special.Enjoy each and evry moment that you have,those are moments that makes you smile,that ignites a special feeling that you had never experienced before..
Those are moments that are priceless.You can never regret a moment that made you smile..
enjoi the moment atleast you will have these memories to cherish for the rest of your life..
i couldnt resist this no matter how much i tried had to say this a quote from elton john “Love your girl with all your heart,so much that she has no other place to stay.But if she still gets away dude its time to turn Gay!!!…lolzz soory just found this funny quote…
i really think so there are people who are so deeply in love with a person but dont want anything in return. they just want that things between them never leaves a bad taste. they love spending time with each other and the guy is content in that. its better to have small and sweet memeories to cherish rather than having nothing.
i love someone who doesnt love me back, the only difference is i’ve never been out with this person, ive just loved him from affar and its killing me inside.
ive just discovered he’s going out with some one else, i tell my self im happy because he is, but it doesnt work, i cant kid my self like i kid very one else when i say im fine.
how do you mend somethink thats only hypethetical,your heart isnt what makes you love, its my god for saken brain. and i wish it would stop my feelings, i wish i wouldnt love. i wish i was emotionless. love has given me nothing, except pain. i dont want to hurt any more. but i cant stop my self from loving.
i should just face the facts, after all im not stupid, i should have got to the conclusion all ready, i will love and hurt for the rest of my life, but no one will ever eel the same way back.
to love another is to hate your self.
i am going through same feelings. it’s very painful, somewhere it makes you strong, if you still keep loving the same person. afterall love is not always getting the person. it’s wishing gud for that person.