People who believe in love at first sight, this is not for you!
I dedicate this post for all those people who never wanted to believe in the amazing phenomenon of Love at first sight or Instant love.. People who thought they were rational and smart enought to reject any thoughts of falling in love, thinking that they are not the ones who keep their hearts in their sleeves.
If this post makes them feel that they have done nothing but lost all the beautiful opportunities of meeting their special one by ignoring their heart and the messages given by GOD himself, then do not think that its just a sheer coincidence instead it’s the 24 karat pure foolishness which they had shown.
I truly believe in Love at first sight… I am not saying that its true for all, just because a person like me who is so enlightened and learned is saying so.. I do have some theories to support my view. Theories which shall be understood by a mixture of rationale and emotions. Prof. Carl Jung, a well known and extra-ordinary psychoanalyst, had come up with the theory of Archetypes. Among the archetypes which he had talked about, two are called Anima and Animus. Where Anima is the feminine image in a man’s psyche, Animus is the masculine image in a woman’s psyche. Every human being irrespective of the gender is essentialy a mixture of both these archetypes, which means a Man has a woman’s image inside him and vice versa.
Now, whenever we experience love at first sight, it means we have found someone that ‘fills’ our anima or animus archetype particulary well. When I saw her for the first time, I sincerely felt that she is the who shall make me feel complete. I could see my reflection in her and that was not just a feeling, it was an experience. An experience which I didn’t ignore.. A message which I knew had come from my personal unconscious. All the human beings in the world are connected through the collective conscious which also explains the phenomena of the ‘Deja Vu’ experiences. Its only the EGO which separates all of us.
This doesn’t mean that you cant fall in love more than once. You may meet three different people and might just fall in love at the first sight with all of them because there is a high probability that your Anima or Animus might match with so many people. Ultimately, its all about following your heart and seeing your reflection in the other person.
Ignore your heart and the feeling shall fade away…
Follow your heart, let the feeling of love prevail and it will take you to a world which you shall have never imagined. I am still in that world.. How many of you can i find there?
Dear Shez,
Yet another beautifully written post. You never fail to surprise me everytime I visit this blog. But, I have a feelin….there’s something that is bothering you..something that is making you think about your Girl more than ever (Just being logical…after so long…the frequency of your expression says it all). Hope alls fine at your end. Although I do not have a hint of anything…but I find myself strong enough to say you…Don’t worry!! She is yours and only yours. I have felt your love for her in your words. And, I can think I know she would have loved you as much and continue to do it until eternity. Be calm, hold her, feel her heartbeats, the fragnance of both the bodies together, live her, smile and let your soul be in peace, in oneness with her.
Do what she loved to do the most. BE what she has dreamt for you. Love her as if tomorrow is her last day…..just live you love. Love is the strength which you and me run our lives with. Why be so weak, for you and me are the few who have experienced the real love for which the Vishnu himself come on earth…..This is worship, this is religion. Your love will become strong enough to hold your life…
Go live it!
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This one is for you!!!
Love At First Sight..
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I’m sure it happens every day.
But we’re too young to know what love is.
At least that’s what some people say.
But then, they can’t see inside our minds.
And they just can’t know how we feel.
But I believe in love at first sight.
I know my love for you is real.
I have loved you since the day we met,
Ever since I laid my eyes on you.
And for me, it was love at first sight.
I hope it was the same for you.
And now I’m asking you to be mine,
To come and spend your life with me.
Be my man, and I’ll give you my world,
And all my love eternally.
Hi Sayali
You have written beautifully.. I must say either I am another sayali in western part of india or you’re another shahzad sitting in the eastern part of india… I hope we have one sayali and a shahzad in both north and south also… By the way M in ahmedabad these days.. thats why i said m in west and i assume u being a bengali.. ur in calcutta.. Wierd assumption?? Might be.. hahaha
Well, there are two reasons for me frequenting my blog these days..
First being the inspiration which I got from you guys thru the comments and…
Secondly, U guessed it right that m being quite restless these days…
for reasons that are alien to me….