People who believe in love at first sight, this is not for you!
I dedicate this post for all those people who never wanted to believe in the amazing phenomenon of Love at first sight or Instant love.. People who thought they were rational and smart enought to reject any thoughts of falling in love, thinking that they are not the ones who keep their hearts in their sleeves.
If this post makes them feel that they have done nothing but lost all the beautiful opportunities of meeting their special one by ignoring their heart and the messages given by GOD himself, then do not think that its just a sheer coincidence instead it’s the 24 karat pure foolishness which they had shown.
I truly believe in Love at first sight… I am not saying that its true for all, just because a person like me who is so enlightened and learned is saying so.. I do have some theories to support my view. Theories which shall be understood by a mixture of rationale and emotions. Prof. Carl Jung, a well known and extra-ordinary psychoanalyst, had come up with the theory of Archetypes. Among the archetypes which he had talked about, two are called Anima and Animus. Where Anima is the feminine image in a man’s psyche, Animus is the masculine image in a woman’s psyche. Every human being irrespective of the gender is essentialy a mixture of both these archetypes, which means a Man has a woman’s image inside him and vice versa.
Now, whenever we experience love at first sight, it means we have found someone that ‘fills’ our anima or animus archetype particulary well. When I saw her for the first time, I sincerely felt that she is the who shall make me feel complete. I could see my reflection in her and that was not just a feeling, it was an experience. An experience which I didn’t ignore.. A message which I knew had come from my personal unconscious. All the human beings in the world are connected through the collective conscious which also explains the phenomena of the ‘Deja Vu’ experiences. Its only the EGO which separates all of us.
This doesn’t mean that you cant fall in love more than once. You may meet three different people and might just fall in love at the first sight with all of them because there is a high probability that your Anima or Animus might match with so many people. Ultimately, its all about following your heart and seeing your reflection in the other person.
Ignore your heart and the feeling shall fade away…
Follow your heart, let the feeling of love prevail and it will take you to a world which you shall have never imagined. I am still in that world.. How many of you can i find there?
